The difference between infatuation and love
Infatuation is a short-lived passion for someone whereas love is a deep affection for someone that lasts the test of time. The problem is that infatuation is a powerful feeling that can make you think you are in love.
How long does infatuation last?
This phase usually lasts from one to six months, but can last as long as two years, or as short as two days. Take it easy in this stage.
Lust and infatuation are usually fleeting and short-lived and don’t tend to turn into love. When you are in love, you will have intense feelings for a guy, and be attracted and connected to him on the level of mind, body and soul. Here is my perception and experience of love. Love is a feeling
Symptoms of infatuation
The foremost symptom of being infatuated by a person is wanting to be around that person. This may sometimes also be sexual desire. Other symptoms may be anxiety, panic, jealousy etc. Love, on the other hand, may start with infatuation or lust and then become love
Love and obsession
Though love and obsession are related in some aspects, the two can never be thought to be the same. Love is a feeling that is uncontrollable, and a feeling which one has for another person. Love always means caring, supportive and giving. … Whereas, an obsessed person gives more importance to his or her needs
What it means to be obsessed
When someone is obsessed, they’ve lost control of their feelings about the object of their obsession. The adjective obsessed is often used to simply mean “very interested,” but when someone is truly obsessed, their interest has become compulsive, and they’ve begun to lose control over it.
How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone You Can’t Have
1.) Get some distance.
Putting some physical distance between you and the object of your obsession will make it easier to achieve a healthy mental separation. …
2.)Stop feeding the obsession.
An obsession needs to be fed to remain strong. …
4.)Live in the moment. …
5.)New habits. …
6.)Obsess over yourself. …
10 Ways to Show Your Partner You’re in Love
There are a million ways to show the one you love just how much you care.
There are a million ways to show the one you love just how much you care. These loving acts can make the difference between a mutually supportive and emotionally engaging relationship and one that you just let happen on its own. The more energy you put into loving, the more love you will get in return. It’s that simple.
Here are a few suggestions.
1. Remember to flirt.
I know you remember how, but perhaps you could step up your game a little. Couples that engage in flirtation with each other have more fulfilling lives in general and much better sex than those who just go to bed and “do it.”
2. Listen to your lover.
I’d been using terms of endearment when checking in with my mate, but after a couple months, she asked me to call her by her name instead of “Honey.” It made her feel that my words were meant just for her. It was an easy change that paid good dividends. She felt heard and got what she needed, and anytime that can happen, it’s a good thing.
3. Experience new things together.
Couples who do things together that they have never done before get closer in the process because those new experiences release the hormoneoxytocin also known as “the cuddle hormone.” Even if you were a little anxious about going into that shark cage, you will have many stories to tell later and a lot of energy to share.
4. Keep each other healthy.
Don’t become a dictator, but when you see your partner making a poor choice, say something. I like it when my partner brings me a bottle of water and takes my soft drink away. I’m all for healthy choices, but I need a little help making them from time to time.
5. Build something together.
It doesn’t matter what. It can be as simple as planting new flowers or as dynamic as starting a business. Yes, there will be some work, but the closeness you experience as a result can make it seem more like a break from your regular life than a chore.
6. Talk about your deepest feelings.
Being able to share your greatest joys and pain will deepen your relationship. When someone understands your losses, doesn’t judge you for your feelings, and will support you in your healing, that sounds like love to me. Just remember not to turn your partner into your therapist.
7. Go for an annual relationship check-up.
If you’ve been in couples counseling, then going back to visit your therapist should be an easy thing to do. You are not starting over; on the contrary, you are consolidating the gains you have made and celebrating your growth. If you don’t have a therapist, you may want to turn to the leader of your house of worship as well.
8. Remember your vows – even if you aren’t married.
Hearing that the one you love wants to be with you forever is a wonderful way to go through life. It’s emotional food for your soul. And it’s heartwarming when the person who matters most to you reminds you that they feel the same way.
9. Be kind to in-laws and relatives.
If you are involved with someone, you are also involved with his or her friends and family. Chances are that you don’t like everyone in your partner’s life, but that’s normal. You need to remember that it isn’t your place to be critical of the people in his or her life, but it’s good to listen when your partner wants to talk about family. Being neutral in this area can make life easier.
10. Teach your partner what you know best.
These are just a few ways to become closer to the one you love and who loves you. It’s never too late to strengthen your connection.